Kat727: Who cares what W thinks, she will be getting everything she deserves. Would you even consider taking her back if she did an about face? I think she has alot of issues that she would need to work on first and of course #1 is ditching the pond scum. What are your thoughts?
Pond scum must go, Pond scum must go, Pond scum must go
You are correct kat, W has a lot of issues. Even if she did a complete about face I don't think I could trust her. She has treated me like a door mate for so long, and I put up with it, I was living with blinders on, because I didn't want to see the dark side of her. Since last December, I've been learning what a crappy messed up person she really is. When W told me she couldn't give me what I wanted, that I deserved someone better, I told her I deserve to be with the person I love. Now I feel she was right, I do deserve someone better than her.
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Puppy, I think in many cases, the financial realities hit the hardest. More so with women, I think, but even Starshyne's idiot husband hasn't got a freaking clue
. They don't have a clue right now, everything is new and exciting, the luster will wear off and bills will continue to come, rain or shine and then as H4H would say WHAMO it will hit them, what did I do, how did I get here, how do I get into this mess. Before the WHAMO hits my W, I want to be as far away from her physically, emotionally and financially. That's why I believe its in my best interest to file D right now.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
