W has fallen out with me, over something so petty I can't remember it. Well after 2 day of cold shoulder I finally got it out of her.
On Tuesday night we were watching TV news in bed and I asked W something and she told me to shut up, so apparently I snubbed by putting on my earphones and listening to music on my phone. I didn't think any thing of it. Wednesday morning we are talking ok, or so I thought, but looking back I can see she was a bit off with me, when I go to kiss her goodbye she cold shoulders me and totally blanks me when I tried to talked to her. So I'm left all day Wednesday thinking WTF have I done wrong. I phone her to asked what’s wrong, then I told her well look, I'm not sure what the problem is, but take a look at how you're responding to me and where it's putting us. Well she had a rant at me down the phone about my stinking attitude and then slammed the phone down. Remember at this point I haven't a clue what's wrong. I have to admit that put me in an off mood for Wednesday evening so the atmosphere was very frosty.
This morning W is still giving me the cold shoulder, so I phone her later at work at say we need to talk. This evening we kinda have a talk, but her body language is all wrong, she's half turned away from me no eye contact. I said look lets forget who's right or wrong but cant you see that this behaviour is setting s back years. W isn't listening too much but I think she's annoyed cos I'm not seeing it her way. I'm trying to tell her that if I have done something to upset her don't let it fester for day,s say something. Her response was I though you would have felt there was something wrong (if I cold shouldered you).
It really, really feels like we've regressed years, I can see now how my old response would have left us not speaking for days, but now I feel as thought I have to kiss her a$$ until she comes round. I really, really used to think I was the problem, but I don't think so now.
