My plan Puddle, is to live my life without H controlling how it goes.

I just e-mailed him again re: the 4th & his desire to spend it w/us as a family;

"Actually, I'm having guests on the night of the 4th, so that's out. S5 would still see the fireworks w/me, so no worries there. Let me know if you'd like the day or the night."

Thanks,
Sunny

I thought I would get instant blow-back & I did;


"We had agreed that I would be there the night of the 4th. I don't want to pull S5 away from his cousin D on the 4th and I promised to be with S5 on the 4th. So, I will stay there until after the fireworks. Thejn if you want I will leave.

But do not try to change what we had planned. That is BS."

He'll be over to P/U S's for dinner tonight, so better prepare for the worked up H, it's so annoying when you can't have a double life in peace.

Hey L, come on over, I'm just joining Kalni et al. & there's strength in #'s.


Quote:
I am not sure what your post meant, it sure was "catchy" though...


I just love that.......

Sunny



Last edited by warm&sunny; 07/02/08 08:16 PM.

M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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