Mulesqb still getting kicked in the a$$

[mulesqb]

I know Puppy - I have thought long and hard about this. We have been moving in and out of separating and not separating. Then I didn't want the boys to have to live like that. Then I thought I would be pushing her right back in to their arms and where would I be then?? It's such a tough call. I DO WANT to move. I think I want to get to a point where she will agree to do it with me.

Also, my IC thinks that when she comes out (or IF) out of this, she will push away from them big time. I guess that would be the ideal time - but I also realize that I could lose her and never get that opportunity.