OK. Breath Marcum.
I wouldn't worry about the lunch. You've gone dark and since, she's texted you "have a nice day" -twice. Not something you say to someone you're about to drop a bomb on.
Secondly, she is having trouble NOW. Before, when she thought you were pestering her, and persuing her, she probably slept like a baby assured that she made the right decision to leave.
Now, however, since you've gone dark, left her alone, she can't sleep. Not only that, she she calls YOU when she can't sleep.
I could be wrong (hard to believe, I know), but I think this lunch is going to be OK.

DON'T cry, don't touch her or try to put your tongue down her throat (ha,ha,ha). Remain cool as a cucumber during your lunch.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."