Congratulations I'm glad you and your W managed to ML, (at last).
I think though on this occasion my thoughts are with your W because by the sounds of it she was very grateful for your efforts. To be honest I think if she was sleeping elsewhere and getting it elsewhere then she would have most likely rejected your advances, so for that I think you should be grateful.
So come on CL brush up on your romantic skills and make more of an effort, for her and for Hawaii.