Now you know for sure that she notices the changes in you. That's excellent. Not only does she notice, but she noticed enough to comment to her cousin.
I'd be careful about the cousin thing. Anything you say may get straight back to her even if she says she won't tell. Blood is thicker.
Read DR. I'm glad you got it. I agree with rereading it as well. I still pick it up, and get something new from it.
Keep up the good work.
What kind of tattoo are you getting. What does your wife think about it?
The cousin has promised she would never say a word of our talks..i told her if i ever found out she did, i could never trust her again.. plus she has a thing for my good buddy..
As for the tattoo:I will tell you a story, don't laugh..
approx 11 years ago i went to get a tattoo done at a friend's place.. i was drunk.. she had a homemade gun.. i ended up with a dot on my arm.. long story short.. i passed out and puked.. (sexy eh.lol)..
to this day i've always had a dot
i am getting a 4 leaf clover (for my irish side) and a maple leaf(Canadian).. side by each.. my wife doesn't think i will follow thru.. she laughed a little when i told her..i have always wanted it.. and am getting it saturday.,. please God don't let me faint LOL..