Things are good here, just taking some time to process the weekend, like last time.
News-wise, SIL is getting married in Houston in November, so there's all kinds of work and family drama for W to deal with. She'll be spending the entire 4th weekend wedding planning, and she's not looking forward to it. FIL is still completely against it (I thought he'd budge by now).
W just found a place to rent, at the home of a professional who's only home a couple days a month. Another woman is already renting a room. Sounds shady to me, like most Craigslist postings. Good thing is, no lease, no commitment. Oh, and she said I could come visit! This wasn't possible at her parents.
W also consolidated all her debt with a new low-interest loan, so the creditors are off her back. I'm proud of her for that.
There were negatives, like her getting really ticked that I still had my ring on. I'd forgotten because she came so suddenly. She also got mad that I still call her "wife" to my friends (she snooped in my texts).
I told her that it's not my intention to make her mad like that, and apologized. Thought about mentioning that we're not divorced, or even in process, so what should I call her? But thought better of it
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK