"I haven't told her not to do things either. She is calmer around me now. When is the last time I said she spewed venom."
I havn't told her to stay out of the house. I havn't changed the locks. I haven't given into her about the beds. I haven't given her any more money. She hasn't asked for any. She comes and asks questions and I answer them. I put a 4 foot skeleton in the livingroom and it scares her everytime she walks in the house. She asked me to get rid of it and it stays.
She tells me the yard is a mess, and I say I don't care about the yard.
She tells me the house is messy, I ask what is messy. She doesn't respond. She comes in the house and gives me the cheek to kiss. I kiss it.
She comes and goes as she pleases and I let her.
I give her space. I do not call her. I do not text her. I only text her if she text me.
I did show up at her house and it could have been bad, but it turned out ok.
I apologized to her for disrepecting her all the time.
She gets cold I don't respond to it. She gets colder, I walk away.
I don't tell her how screwed up she is anymore. I do not blame her for anything. I do not try to hold or hug her.
