I do think I need to start firing more about the impact on the K's. That has been so lost in all of this. Her responses have been "they will be fine when they see us both happy", "I want my K's to see their mom in a happy R", "I will be a better mom if I am not with you", "I am not breaking up the family - we can still spend Christmas mornings together and stuff".
Meanwhile an unsuspecting D10 runs to give her dad a hug every morning, S13 is still planning for house renos to make his "cool basement" and D16 is not sure what to think - wants to go out more with friends (her escape mechanism or just that age or a combination???).
Can't bombard otherwise effectiveness lost, but need to time them right.
That is what I struggle with the most...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
