I moved out to give him space

[Dom R]

So I am back in the same spot as always. Do I file for a seperation to avoid financial ruin because of his bad choices or do I jump into a divorce. I mean why separate when there is no chance of things working out? Why delay the inevitable?

I'm tired of fighting for a man who does not love me and will never be the man I want or need to have in my life as my husband?

Daisy;
i havent posted to you before.. so I guess i'll give you a little warning... I'm known to be rather blunt.
This post is no exception

You are looking to run away from your marriage rather than fight for it, because your husband isnt "the man you want".
With the implication, that if you jettisoned him, and started over, you would finally find "the right man" for you.

A wise person wrote something like, "a good marriage isnt about finding the right person, but about BEING the right person".
From what I've read of your posts... sounds like there's some work you could do on your side of things.

[ i was going to write a lot more, but... well. i'll just leave it there ]