To tag onto Dom's post, I'll reiterate my previous post.

Do you want to be "right" or "happy?" From your posts it sounds like you escalated it because you wanted to be right.

Even if you were baited by him pushing your buttons, as Dom said and we all know, you control YOU.

If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06