So she texts me again about an hour later:

W - I hope you are still going to take the girls today

M - Yes

M - You need to tell them everything you are doing and exactly
what is going on. They are old enough to see right through
everything.

W - I was going to, I wanted to tell you first.

W - You broke my trust a long time ago.

M - This is not about me and I never cheated on you or broke
trust like this. Regardless of the past, I'm not allowing you to
shift guilt or blam on me anymore. I refuse to accept that.

W - I'm not blaming you, but you have a lot to do with WHY.

M - Um, that is blame and I refuse it. I stood up strong to get
healthy and overcome the problems I had. I'm fine with myself
and my conscious is clean. I don't need to hear about what you
are doing or who you are seeing. I don't even know why are
you even telling me all this now anyway if you're so set
on divorce.

W - I know you're doing good and I'm glad for you. I can just
never be happy with you because too much has happened in the past.
I feel calm now.

M - If you want to throw our marriage and friendship away then
it is your loss and nothing I can do about it. I'm happy with
myself and I'll make someone an awesome partner... it's too
bad and sad that it won't be you.

M - There's no need for you to keep contacting me about this. Go
have your fun, I'm moving on and don't need to hear about your
actions especially with other men.

W - I hope you find someone!


Well, my day is totally shot. It really sucked waking up
to all of that. I'm wondering now if this is a total lost
cause now.

- Scott


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