Oh yes, the ole, "our problems have nothing to do with OM". It's funny that there were never any problems mentioned before the affair, but now "I've been unhappy for years" and "I've never loved you", blah, blah, blah.
As Puppy would say, SCRIPT.
Next time she says OM has nothing to do with your problems, just reply "ok, then end all contact with him so we can work on BOTH of our issues without a third person in our marriage". When you say that you can expect another round of "OM has nothing to do with our problems". Just stick to your position that as long as there are three people in the marriage, YOUR PROBLEMS can not be addressed.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
