Roomie called me on the way home last night. Still at work. Still with same client. It was a little after 7. She was finishing up opening a trust account. Big bucks. Two little old ladies. She made some new friends. Even got a referal for doctor for her. She still wanted to go to wallymart after work and she would call me when headed home. I told her I picked some pizza for dinner, so no worries about cooking for either of us.
At home, playing with kiddo's. Aunt for Laredo calls me. She needs help with her fathers will. He is the great grandfather who just passed away. We spoke for an hour and a half. We talked about roomie. Our marriage. She doesn't understand, so on and so forth. She our uncle are praying for me. I told her roomie is planning on moving. She is surprised. She has spoken to roomie before and couldn't understand her reasoning. I told her it is probably OM. She said roomie mentioned a "friend".
Roomie called while I was on the phone. At about 9pm. Still at wallymart and getting a lot more groceries than she thought. Never got to go anywhere else. Didn't leave work until 7:45. Could I think of anything else. We talk for a little bit. Laugh a little. She's checking out and will be home. I tell aunt, and she is suspicious. We get off phone and roomie shows up around 10:15. We put away stuff.
In girls room, D6 mentions that mommy said something about the circus starting for today and going. I look at roomie and she mentions it starting, never been, only $10 buck a person. I say not a bad price considering it will only be the 4 of us.
Roomie looks at me and starts to laugh. I look at her trying to figure out the joke. She still looks at me and laughs again because I can't figure it out.
I say, "Whats so funny?" "Thats funny." "What?!" "The four of us." "Huh?" "Your inviting yourself?" she laughs. "I'm sorry." "I'm just kidding." she says laughing again.
I remain sitting with her on the bed for a minute. She is talking to the girls. I leave and go to wash some dishes.
I missd the funniness of the joke. I can't believe she thought that was funny. I am at the sink and she brings me the advertisement of the circus in the paper. I look briefly and continue what I am doing. She is smiling at me.
"I was just kidding, silly. It was a joke."
"Very funny." I say sarcastically. She laughs and pushes me.
We sit to watch a movie with S14. "Be kind, Rewind". Silly movie that did make me laugh. But roomie and I fell asleep on the sofa together again. Same positions as last time.
Very nice evening. Her joking and all. She always surprises me, somehow.
Up this morning and she is in the bathroom first. I make the bed. She leaves door open a bit while going potty. A sign of comfort with me.
She goes to iron and I take a quick shower. I leave the door open. Maybe she might walk in on me, but doesn't.
Uh oh. She is emailing me again.
Ok, I had called her on the way to work, but she didn't answer. Her ringer was still off from work. Her not answering was ok with me, because it also told me that at least she was not on the phone with anybody. Like OM. She would have know someone was calling her and answered me.
We left together this morning, but I had to leave a friend of nephew on my way. This morning I had made us lunches and some snacks for work.
She asked:
Hey you, did you call me this morning? Whats up?
I emailed back:
Yup.
I was just seeing if you had broken into the donuts while on your way to work. I did
Was also going to tell you that I just left Devin off at Dairy Queen. Practically made him jump out
Like, go on, git! It was just funny.
This is the most contact we have had in weeks. She has been responding. Even initiating casual contact with me.
Am I doing something right?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."