Tom, I love Ellie's list...perfect.........

I also will add that once there has been adultery involved, you have to be a little more firm than just a normal break up. No other men is well within your rights in order for you to redevlop trust together.


Ian

M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09