Wife textd me and thanked me for going to the game, we had a bit of simple chit chat about daughters and that was it.
I see last night she texted me about 4:30 in the morning, but I was sleeping. I texted her back and and asked if something was wrong just now and here's how it went:
W - We need to talk M - About what? W - I met someone, nothing serious yet, he treats me good as is nice W - I'm sorry and just don't want you to find out the wrong way.
I did not reply anymore.
She then called and the conversation went basically like this:
W - are you mad? M - I don't even know what to say to this. W - What do you mean? M - I feel totally violated and rejected. W - We are getting divorced, what does it matter. M - It matters a lot to me, we are still married, there's a lot of love between us and I can't believe you did this. W - There hasn't been love between us in long time. M - I don't even want to talk to you right now, I asked you before if there was another guy and you said no. I knew this was going on for a while. W - I only met him a week ago. M - I said bullshit, this is nothing something you just did and decide to call me about. W - Well, I talked to him on the phone a few times, but that's it. I just wanted you to know because I did not want it to get back to you when we go out. M - I'm going to go, I cant talk to you about this, it's not even all processed yet. W - I'm sorry, but we are getting divorced. It's my time to be happy now.
end of conversation
She then texts me this:
W - Are you alright? W - I'm sorry
I did not reply to them.
I'm devastated to say the least. I don't know what to do and could use some advice?
- Scott
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