Jeanette, I think I was just pointing it out. You are the one that seems enamored by it. \:\) Like I said my point is my wife always dressed conservatively. Never would show too much cleavage. Never would wear short skirts or shorts because she thought she was fat and it was inappropriate for a mother to dress like that. Now she is doing it. I would always tell her to show more leg. I would like that outfit because of the slit or something. You know the imagination of the dress. I'm not saying she needs to wear pants to go swimming. I would tell her to wear a bikini and show off, but she never would.

On our honeymoon I took a picture of her on the beach wearing a american flag bikini. One day she suprised me and got it blown up for me. She said she look fat in it. I told her she was crazy and I loved it. I hung it up in my shop. Pin up girl. The only one I was allowed to have.

Don't even get me started how jealous she was of that stuff. If something came in the mail that was promicious she would throw it away or burn it. I wasn't allowed to watch certain things on tv. Etc... If I was changing channels and there was a sexaul image on or something and if I stayed on it too long. She would start flipping out on me. No movies with any sexual content what so ever. But when we dated she was ok with it. She would cover my eyes or something.

Brings me to another story. On our honeymoon. I was watching something on HBO. It was some kind of fantasy movie like the hobbit. I was watching it for about an hour and 45 minutes and nothing strange happened. Then she walks into the room and this mermaid pops out of cake and is topless. Man I got an ear beating for watching porno the entire day. Then the story never went away. She brought it up all the time at holiday functions to her family. Etc... I remeber being at a Christmas party and telling my cousin how tough she was about that stuff. Well her sister was sitting there and ran her mouth to my wife, and the next thing I now I'm getting an earful again like 7 years later. Trust me those little boobs on the mermaid where not worth it.

Oh it's all crazy...
There was one show I really liked watching. Rescue me, because you know I was a volunteer fire fighter. There was a scene that got totally blown out of proportion in my opinion and it was all over the news. Well I wasn't allowed to watch Rescue me anymore.

I also liked watching the Soprano's, I love Mafia flicks. She never said anything about that. She said I just shouldn't watch those bad shows.

Maybe that's why everyting has always been tit for tat and continues to be like that.

She needs to stop treating me like a fifteen year old locked up in her compound.

I domesticated myself for her, and tried to meet all her demands and it was never good enough. Why do I want to put up with more? You know its just worse. She acts the same way about stuff around the house. A house she doesn't even live in.

However it's ok for the noise level where she is at. She says she got used to it. But if the neighbor was revving his engines I would hear about it, and she would ask me to do something about it. Then when I did do something I looked like the idiot.