Phoenix - That's a great way of looking at it.I think she exhibits many traits of many different things that I read about. All I know is that I am no where near qualified to figure out exactly what it is. I am encouraged that at the end of the day she feels she can't leave our sitch (no matter how she describes it ie. the "house"). At the end of the day - the house is something we did together.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.