Phoenix - That's a great way of looking at it.I think she exhibits many traits of many different things that I read about. All I know is that I am no where near qualified to figure out exactly what it is. I am encouraged that at the end of the day she feels she can't leave our sitch (no matter how she describes it ie. the "house"). At the end of the day - the house is something we did together.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.