Just catching up LIS. Excellent work.

I can share some of the spew I got when I exposed.

W: Why would you tell her?
me: She deserved to know what was going on in her marriage.
W: Don't you think that should have been up to OM to tell her?
me: It's been going on for 9 months, when was he planning on telling her?
W: It's none of your business what goes on in their marriage.
me: It's my business what goes on in my marriage.
W: You just blew any chance we had at saving our marriage.
me: So if I don't say anything about you scr*wing OM, our marriage has a chance?
W: Not any more.
me: Ok.
W: What's that mean?
me: Just ok.
W: You're so controlling.
me: If I'm controlling because I have a problem with my wife sleeping with a married man, I can live with that.
W: This is no one else's business. Why would you tell her?
me: I can see why you wouldn't want anyone to know.
W: Whatever.
me: goodnight.


There was quite a bit more, but you get the jist. I added some things about the truth lacking around our house.

Just think "drug addict separated from her drug". In my experience it took longer than the 5 days Puppy related for the anger to go away. So don't hang on to that, but they DO get over the anger.

Nice Job.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.