I know what yoyo is saying, but its so sad that the OW H think's they are working things out, while she is doing this behind his back.

Tough call. I can only give you my opinion of what I would do and that would be to tell him. Now you can do this discreetly. There are tons of ways to do it, without giving up your name, even though I know you have spoken to him before.

(((lwb)))

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.