hey lost~ this is such a hard place to be. my h has multiple OW...he's livn total bachelor life. it's crazy insanity. for a while he was ready to work on things, now i don't know what he is thinking??
you are in a tough spot as well. having OM in picture probably makes this decision extremely tough on you.
You and I have similar sitch's going on. i don't know how you felt when you walked, but i just felt so overwhelmed, so emotionally trapped. I just needed time, and space, and I didn't even know who i was anymore. The one thing I have learned in this time by myself, is who I am. and I kinda like me!! I was such a bitter angry person towards the last part of my days living with my H....I call my self the mean angry monster. I'm just glad that part of me is gone.
keep your chin up christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
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