It's that first one I believe will trip her up. I think she will try to reason that she is "ONLY FRIENDS" with him like she's been saying all along. What is it about that BS? Do they think we're idiots or something? "Awwwww, isn't that sweet, that puts my mind at ease that your only FRIENDS" LOL!
Astimegoeson,
I would approach it this way....... If you intend to have a monogamous romantic relationship with me, I need to establish boundaries...... Any male "friends" must go......... It is cool to have female friends..... End of statement...
You can flame away guys about it be "controlling" or whatever..... HOWEVER, most relationship experts would understand having opposite sex friends opens way too many doors... Especially for someone who has had As in the past...
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret