I too have found the womans POV really helpful in understanding what my w is thinking. You just dont realise how different we are until this sitch hits you.

You seem to be much further on your personal journey than me at the moment and any tiny step forward is great. I too am trying to be more appreciative but fear I sound a bit false.

I say I have come to terms with my part in this but maybe I dont believe it yet. You sound as if you are truly there.

All the best


Kenny

Me:40
WAW, MLC?:39
Kids:S11,S9
T:25, M:14
ILYB:Apr 08
W moved out Aug 08
W:Does not Want to Try

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