Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

Update - yesterday H called me three times just to tell me something funny or he was frustrated about something and wanted to vent. I was very friendly, listened and told him I knew he would do the right thing about the frustration. (Tink - what a great little SW I have become....or am becoming!) I hope this is progress, but the urge to push him was strong, but I resisted. I think if I can just let him alone and come around on his own, maybe we can move a little bit forward??