Hmm I have a MC session set up for tonight. After last weeks session H decided he no longer wanted the M admitted to still seeing OW and went a little off. Should I even bother asking if he would like to attend?
Pinkie,
Unfortunately, MCing doesn't work very well -- if at all -- if one of the spouses is in an active affair. If the sessions are helping YOU, and you can afford it, then you can go, but if you're looking for significant improvement in your marriage while your husband is still having an affair, I wouldn't recommend it, but would recommend you go see an IC instead.