Hi,
Just stopping in to introduce myself to you. I read one of your responses to Hoosiermama and hadn't wanted to hijack her thread. When you mentioned to her that you had been satisfied allowing your H to do the repairs around the house it really resonated with me. In my case, I thought it was good teamwork for H and I to do those things which we could each do well rather than struggling at something the other could do with ease.

I'm happy that your H is in the picture, but, not in the way that you'd prefer. I haven't read your entire story but it's kind of distressing that you are thinking you will be celibate for the rest of your life. (I am at that point because I can't imagine wanting to be with anyone else, and H doesn't want to be with me.)

Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08