wow, tom! just caught up on your situation. my my. so what is on the list?
Hi M,
Yep, she's hinted twice now on reconciliation. She's testing the waters I guess. I've not entertained the ideal whole heatedly and I'm thinking maybe I should at least see how serious she is about it.
First and foremost on the list is the most obvious.. No contact with OM.
It's that first one I believe will trip her up. I think she will try to reason that she is "ONLY FRIENDS" with him like she's been saying all along. What is it about that BS? Do they think we're idiots or something? "Awwwww, isn't that sweet, that puts my mind at ease that your only FRIENDS" LOL!
IM still forming the list, but that first one will set the tone for all the others. Of course I'm going to recommend counseling, but I'm not going to beat her over the head on that one, I can gently persuade her in that direction if we can get over that first hurdle.
Seriously M, I don't even know if I want to face the work this will require of me, let alone her. I may be asking you for some advice here in the future since your experienced in this area.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
