Lobo

Agree when i was still wasting my time reasoning - i told her she should be putting energy into out future.

I was quite positive that in time we could come through this but OM kills the positivity heaps.

As for infidelity - maybe - she wanted to leave for about year she reckons - perhaps connecting with someone else in whatever form was enough to make her decide that now is the time.

She already compliments me on my appearance - loosing 44 lbs helped that- i wasn;t that big to begin with.

We never argued ever which is not healthy. W very anti confrontation hence my comments. I never agree unless i believe she is right. To date i've seen her point of view.

Pedestal - yes - i really thought she was in touch with her thoughts / emotions but not any more.

Princess - old nickname from years ago.

Reason we are in this situation is because we never discussed our relationship. W just bottled it up.

She still gets jealous of me and potential other women - that can't be right can it ?