I am going to compose a list of requirements I deem necessary to entertaining the ideal of reconciliation. This decision is in response to some suggestions I have received on this site.

I believe my stbx has put the ball in my court with her reconciliatory tones recently and I have not responded properly. Maybe it's cycling, maybe not. Either way, I don't think my conscience will rest until I do this. I don't believe her response will be favorable, but it will give me a piece of mind I need. If by chance a miracle occurs and she does agree and shows sincere effort, then I will seriously consider it.


"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain