Oh and drama drama drama: Former OW constantly calls H. Spending more time with H this weekend, his phone rang like crazy (he leaves it out in the open). I heard the '3 ring ILY' from FOW all day long. H says she calls all the time, asks on VM to see him, etc. He claims he doesn't answer. Um, I think I need to tell OW's H, right??
Part of me says yes, do it she deserves to be ratted out and her H deserves to know the truth. But on the other hand I think why not let sleeping dogs lie and let your H and OW deal with their own drama. Isn't OW's H aware of the affair? I think at this point it might be better to just to try to have a peaceful divorce and get your financial needs met by your STBXH. If you make him mad it might cause the divorce to get ugly and expensive. Right now he seems cooperative on splitting everything fairly.
Now...after you get your divorce calling the OW's H may be a thought....
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