Hey H4H, one is probably a obsessive compulsive disorder. I cannot fault her for this. Its how she is, cannot handle chaos I have to forgiver her for this, its not her fault, its the way she is.
The other (involving OM) is a decision she made, a choice, not something like OCD but a choice, and I cannot forgive her for the choice she made.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never