Yoyo and Sue, thank you so much. I commented the other day how H is 2 different people, the one he is when he is with us, and the one he is outside of the home.
He has no 'home base' now. He has distanced himself from our house, but is rarely at his dads as well (more at our house physically. In fact I overheard H's stepdad and dad converse about where H spends his nights lol. They had no idea he still stayed at the house a lot). His dads is not ready for the girls, and hot (his dad doesn't like AC), so he hates it there too.
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but you think that maybe it's time to stop doing family things together.
We really don't do family things together out, apart from D4's birthday stuff. I think that's why I felt suffocated. He is just at the house a lot. And yes, basically he only has them when I am working, and my panic about him wanting more time than that is subsiding. He loves his single life weekends. Guess what? Works for me, cuz I love seeing the girls when he isn't there.
Part of me is trying to stall and prepare myself, because its very hard to picture H getting his own place and doing it all on his own. Very hard.
Oh and drama drama drama: Former OW constantly calls H. Spending more time with H this weekend, his phone rang like crazy (he leaves it out in the open). I heard the '3 ring ILY' from FOW all day long. H says she calls all the time, asks on VM to see him, etc. He claims he doesn't answer. Um, I think I need to tell OW's H, right??
