Hi everyone-

Well, a couple of busy days at work have kept me from posting. Lurking a little, but not posting.

I'm feeling better now. Sara....Thanks! Rob & Saffie, as always, your posts lift me.

Life has been quiet around home the past few days. D4 has been with my parents. I'll go out on Thursday evening to spend the long 4th of July weekend with them & bring her back home with me. She's so sweet. I got lots of "I Love You Mommy" from her on the phone. She told me that she's excited that I'm going to be there to watch the fireworks with her. H has been around, but quiet. He picked up his vehicle from the mechanic today....1200.00, plus 165.00 for a week of a rental car. OUCH! Good thing he had all the money tucked away. He got some tickets in the mail today for a play in November. It hit me tonight that OW's birthday is in November. Guess it's her birthday present. He still isn't talking about what's going on with his end of this whole mess.

My boss took me out for lunch today just to talk about how I am doing.....personally & professionally. It was a fun lunch. He grew up around Chicago and although we didn't know each other at the time, we both worked in the same office in Chicago too. We know a lot of the same people & have a lot in common. I told him about my new apartment and he asked the same question as my other boss......did you sign a 12 month lease. It was nice to hear that they want me to stick around. I know that they were both concerned that this split with H would send me back home by my family in South Dakota. I love my job and I like it here. If H leaves for CA, as he's mentioned, then I might consider going home. But not now.

Well, it's getting late for me. I need to sign off. Thanks everyone!

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day