I'm still in shock over his way of leaving... very disappointing.
Is there really a way that is not disappointing Gypsy? Failure on their parts is failure. It is just different levels of failure that we view. There really is no good way of doing this.
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Their dad's priority in life is not me. It's to 'live his own life'. Not being a priority means even though he might have some concern about my wellbeing it's nothing compared to what he feels for his girlfriend and where he is now.
Honestly Gypsy, you don't know that for sure. You have no idea where his head is at. Be grateful because if you understood him right now we would have to take you out back and flog you. Anyone who understands crazy, well you know.......
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It sucks to be in this position. But then again, for many years I never felt good enough. I don't need that type of thinking, especially since I'm the one I have to answer to.
This statement dear Gypsy is where your focus needs to be. Why you didnt feel good enough, what you were thinking, how it affected your actions, and how to prevent it in the future.
Looks to me like some reading is in order for you young lady. So here are my favorites:
The third one is interesting as I have done this a few times over the years being in management. I am a firm believer that in order to improve oneself you must understand your personality type.The third is a link to a Briggs Meyer test.....I bet I already know what you are.
