Don't misinterpret ATGO's message. It is about how you posted and what it sounded like. I pretty much read it the same way as he did.
I think you are improving vastly. However when someone points out something they see, take it for what it is, an opinion expressed to you.
There really is no reason to go off on ATGO. I have read his posts to you and he has been a huge proponent of lostphil from the get go. He expresses one opinion of something you may not be doing correctly and you come off with this
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You need to stop antagonizing I was having a pretty descent night until I read your post.
A little extreme to a guy who has been nothing but good to you and supportive of your situation.
However, that seems to be your pattern.As long as everyone plays nice in Phils back yard he will be nice.But the minute you point out anything wrong, Phil will take his ball and go home.
Do you do this to your W Phil? I hope not......
You pointed out something interesting in this last post:
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I just folded her laundry. Found a tshirt of hers that said you couldn't look this good if you tried. Is that something a 31 year mother of two would wear? A woman that was conservative republican catholic woman.
This is pretty significant because you are asking us if this is normal. NO...It's not... and that right there should tell you something is wrong with her right now. Things like this are why I pointed out the MLC issue to you.
Women who marry young and have children young are prime candidates for MLC in there early 30's. They have a tendancy to try and relive their lost youth. A lot of your wifes actions tell me that she is trying to go back and relive her missed freedom.
I think that as long as you keep comparing apples(normal wife behaviors) to oranges (WAW/MLC behaviors) you will never be able to get a solid grasp on how to handle her. You have to stop expecting any normal behaviors from her or you will continually be disappointed.
