Time for optimism ??

[SuperDad]

The Time away will be good for both of us and either of us may have a fresh perspective on things when I get back.
But at that stage I want to move one way or the other.

Dave,
you will know when you are there. You don't need these artificial deadlines, you will just know.

For me, it was when I felt the sitch impacting my patience with my kids and my judgement in general. I knew I had to move on. So...I retained a L today.

Hope it doesn't get this far for you.

SD