Mark, I wish you could have seen the productions as well. In 2006 I had this realization that I had lost touch with my...So I tried out for a play with the Little Theatre and got in that summer....I don't know if any of this is connected to H's affair or not. The affair started 2 months after the last play ended.
I am in such a talkative mood...sorry!
Your H's choice to have an affair was his choice, nothing you were doing could have avoided that choice. The problem was and is in him, he hasn't matured yet..it wasn't the theatre or anything else...it was a choice he made because of who he is at the moment. He could have walked the mature road. Had your circumstances been different, he would have made the same choice.
He was proud of you for doing the theatre work clearly or he wouldn't have been telling everyone. I think once he visited the production and experienced the performance he understood how important it was. I can't imagine that did anything but earn you more respect and admiration. He just came to a fork in the road and wasn't mature enough to make the mature choice. You did make the mature choice by carrying yourself to where you are now.
Talk all you want here, that's what forums are for!
