I guess in my case things are a little different because I am the one considering filing papers. I moved out a little over a week ago and now my husband has applied for a loan to buy his own house. . .a week after I leave?!
He is co-signing with his dad (whom I despise and do not trust for good reasons) and I want no part of this thing finacially. I am trying to save my marriage but at the same time my husband is showing no interest in fixing things and I do not want to be screwed over for the rest of my life when my husband wrecks my good credit with this business deal.
I am happy to hear that some people still make it after they file. I kind of wonder if filing scares the other spouse into changing. Like a reality check? Anyone done that before? Does it work or backfire and you end up divorced?
