One of the reasons I wanted to get married was so that I wouldn't have to worry about chasing woman or getting to know them.
Phil,
I absolutely cringed when I read this. You really need to work on your "inner game" before you can address issues with your W.
As somebody already mentioned, you really need to go back to the beginning. It's about you now, not her.
You don't need to "chase" Woman and getting to "know them" should be considered the fun part, not a chore. Your W is not a possession Phil.
This neediness comes out in every one of your post and until you learn to be happy and satisfied with being on your own, your not going to attract your W back into your life.
Think for a second Phil and ask yourself... what if she doesn't return? What will my life look like? What would I want it to look like? What is it in life that will make you "happy and fulfilled" as a human being? How can you bring value into your own life for your own benefit?
This is important Phil. Your concentrating on your W, when you should be concentrating on yourself. Once you learn that concept, I think you'll start seeing a change in her.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
