The 1 year separated mark is nearly here . Wow where did that year go? Sitch is still in Limbo and I guess to some extent its because its where both W and me are comfortable enough for now. I say both because either of us has can change it. I had decided that the one year mark was going to be a line in the sand. I think emotionaly I have already crossed the line and in reality am waiting until after my trip before I decide to change anything. The Time away will be good for both of us and either of us may have a fresh perspective on things when I get back. But at that stage I want to move one way or the other.