Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Not sure how it works up there, but if that is the date the court will use to split assets, it may not be a big deal, it might even work in your favor. 2 days probably wouldn't make a difference though unless something drastic happened.

So, is it worth trying to change it? If so, how would you do it in the way least likely to actually start a fight? If not, leave it be.

I say do a 180. Keep working on surprising her! Enjoy the time together, it's just paper after all!


180 it is, and no 2 days, big deal! a friend told me it's hard to fight when there is noone to fight with.. i haven't put one iota of fight ... only the first 2 weeks when i cried and begged and did it ALL wrong..

W just cut my hair, trimmed my beard.. we got along famously.. her cousin was there.. we joked around.. i said something to my W like, it looks like i am 10 years younger.. cousin heard you are going for someone 10 years younger.. W said she thought she heard that too.. not a peep from me... nothing.. just finished the haircut.. thanked W.. and said what do i owe you.. W said dinner..so... hmmm... i am cooking steaks right now as W is now doing cousins hair.. cousin said i look really tanned and I clean up good ...

W smiled...

now i need a hot bath to soothe my soooore muscles.. i did a 2 hour workout...

for now the papers sit in my trunk.