I cannot (right now) even think about forgiving her. I don't have a problem forgiving her for the way she feels around the kids, (they drive her insane) its not her fault she is the way she is. I can forgive her for leaving becasue the kids and I will be fine and she doesn't want to be the angry person she was in front of them. There is one decision she made, to hook up with OM that I cannot forgive.
Jeff, to me both are equally bad. Why can you forgive one thing and not the other. Both seem to be her being her. She seems...like she is broken. Something mental. An obsessive compulsive disorder?
Do you think that it is because you'll get the benefit of having custody of the kids? Just provoking a thought.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
