Not sure how it works up there, but if that is the date the court will use to split assets, it may not be a big deal, it might even work in your favor. 2 days probably wouldn't make a difference though unless something drastic happened.
So, is it worth trying to change it? If so, how would you do it in the way least likely to actually start a fight? If not, leave it be.
I say do a 180. Keep working on surprising her! Enjoy the time together, it's just paper after all!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2