Sex-Starved Husband. Will Work For Sex.

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Wow a couple of lights just turned on in my head! I used to do that seductive thing while W was in the kitchen making dinner. It's worse than that, without even thinking, acting on instinct only (I guess) I'd try to give her a hug when she has a knife in her hand and cutting something. Lately I have really been trying to control that as it would bug the hell out of her when I'd do that.

The other light is she has told me things will be so different between us when D has gone to college. This makes perfect sense to me now. It's because mommy-mode will have ended for good and she will have more of that sexy lady side of her back again and to concentrate on.

When she told me that the first time my response was, "why wait until then let's start now." I never considered the mom factor.



Silly - I got onto this thread late but a quick note on the PE problem. I had that on and off depending on my fatigue and how often between ML in my younger years. But I find as I get older, it is no longer a problem. After about age 40 I found that I could go very long, too long in fact if W doesn't "force" the issue so to speak (thankfully she knows the right 'tricks' to help things along when she is ready for me to finish).

I like your method of finishing with her last though. I had always done it the other way around, so I may try that if PE happens again.

It sounds like you two are doing a great job recovering from your SSM. Keep up the good work.