I would say no R talk yet unless she initiates it. She needs to work through her thoughts and feelings without any "pushing" from you. A deadline, or perception of one, will only stress her out more.
Be her friend. If she wants to be serious and wants to talk, then do it as much as you can handle. But don't push any R talks on her.
hi Michelle
yes be her friend.. oddly enough she has our wedding picture in "her" bedroom.. and she keeps the notes i write from the cats ..
someone told me, act as if you just met and were trying to court her again from square 1.. (i think dry_heat said square zero even)...
i just worked out for nearly 2 hours.. man did i burn alot of negativity away i am, sore but feel greeeeeat!!
Duh i told her about the tattoo i am getting.. i should have just gotten it... she would never see me getting a tattoo.. she knows i am usually a wussy
i don't know what step to do next, i am sitting with the papers in the trunk of my car. i don't want to start a fight but the date of our S is wrong..she put May 17, but it was May 19...big deal?