I am in awe... you working on the relationship for 14 months, with a husband who's had/has another partner.
I feel like I'm in an impossible situation... husband bolts out to undisclosed location, turns out it's with another woman he's been with during our marriage, starts divorce proceedings the day he moves out.. everything happening in a few weeks time.
How do you do it? I'm trying to move forward but not get divorced, if that makes sense. The more it goes on, the more I realize I don't believe in divorce.. I just don't. I believe you work through things. We let things fester forever.. now I have a different understanding of what is possible.
All he wants is to divorce me, his goal in life. What in the heck do I do?
