i'm clueless....

[Dom R]

Maybe i just don't want it to work as much i'd like to think i do. i don't know what's wrong with me, but i just don't want to have to work so hard by my self anymore.... gotta go..

Then... tell your husband that. Exactly that, in exactly those words. And do nothing more, until he does. Let him decide to put in his share of the work, or not. It's long past time that he did. He's being a lazy bum right now.

Then either way, treat his as his actions warrant.