Ali - John Gray has several books, I have read at least 4 of them, but there are probably about 12 total. The original book, if you haven't read it for a long time, will cause a lot of light bulb moments for you.
Cinco - you may never be able to awaken that in her, but KEEP TRYING and try to have faith. Adopt a "dont give up attitude" but keep it on your side of the fence. In other words, don't go at this like "I want to make my wife awaken to her inner sexual self" because that will put pressure on her to become something that YOU want...not encourage her to open up to the beautiful self she truly is. See the difference? You can do it!
