He doesn't understand anything. He doesn't know the words refinance or equity. Paying off the car and telling him that is like giving him $3000 mean nothing to him. He would rather have the $3,000 in cash. He doesn't understand (seriously) why we can't just erase my name from the title of the car and he take over the payment and I hand him over $7,000. He told my Dad that he is sacrificing so much with this deal. He also wanted to know how much my payments are to pay back my Dad for all of this and why I can't just get a loan for another $500 to give him. I really don't get the reason WHY he thinks I owe him money. Obviously that is coming from the OW.
Sara, who knows what they think. My wife's OM told her that somehow it would be a good idea to steal my personal medical information -- A FEDERAL FELONY! -- to show that I was taking ADs. Also SWORE that the way I was tracking her was thru the BMW Assist subscription on her BMW, even though just 30 seconds on their website will tell you that they can't use it for that unless you have a police report showing that it's stolen. These same "rocket scientists" never took the time to sweep the car for a voice-activated recorder (which I had under the front seat) or the trunk for a GPS-enabled phone (that I had in my son's baseball gear bag) until more than two months later, when I had all the evidence I needed.
